Rename optional-dependencies to dependency-groups

[monish-instinct]

Migrates from [project.optional-dependencies] to the modern [dependency-groups] format as specified in PEP 735.

Fixes #5327

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[Saransh-cpp]

Thanks, @monish-instinct! Feel free to mark it as review or ping me if you need any help on this.