Rollup merge of #146293 - BenjaminBrienen:try_remove, r=joboet

feat: non-panicking `Vec::try_remove`

`if index < my_vector.len() { Some(my_vector.remove(index)) } else { None }` is annoying to write and non-panicking functions are broadly useful.

APC: rust-lang/libs-team#649

Tracking issue: rust-lang/rust#146954

Author: matthiaskrgr