rxrpc: Clean up connection abort

jira LE-1907
Rebuild_History Non-Buildable kernel-rt-5.14.0-284.30.1.rt14.315.el9_2
commit-author David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
commit a00ce28
Empty-Commit: Cherry-Pick Conflicts during history rebuild.
Will be included in final tarball splat. Ref for failed cherry-pick at:
ciq/ciq_backports/kernel-rt-5.14.0-284.30.1.rt14.315.el9_2/a00ce28b.failed

Clean up connection abort, using the connection state_lock to gate access
to change that state, and use an rxrpc_call_completion value to indicate
the difference between local and remote aborts as these can be pasted
directly into the call state.

	Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
cc: Marc Dionne <marc.dionne@auristor.com>
cc: linux-afs@lists.infradead.org
(cherry picked from commit a00ce28)
	Signed-off-by: Jonathan Maple <jmaple@ciq.com>

# Conflicts:
#	include/trace/events/rxrpc.h
#	net/rxrpc/ar-internal.h
#	net/rxrpc/call_object.c
#	net/rxrpc/conn_event.c
#	net/rxrpc/output.c
#	net/rxrpc/proc.c

Author: PlaidCat