build: add `--shared-hdr-histogram` configure flag #2066

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 34s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	1h 2m 30s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	1h 32m 53s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	2h 42m 37s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	1h 50m 1s
	7h 9m 35s

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