Refuse bogus fee closures rather than force-closing

[TheBlueMatt]

We can just send a warning and ignore now.

[TheBlueMatt]

Okay, I'm now honestly confused why I opened this in the first place. We don't force-close we send a warning and move on.

[TheBlueMatt]

Oh, I found the user who was complaining about this, doesn't matter, though, we shouldn't be fixing ancient code that no peer should really be running into at this point.